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What if My Parent Didn't Go To Prison...? Reflections on Parental Incarceration and Substance Use
We often hear the “maybe ifs” and “what ifs” from peers who have, or had, a parent struggling with substance use & incarceration. Some remember believing it is their fault, a belief that grows as they do. Some are quietly grateful when their parent went to prison, told it was a place for getting better, and trusting they will. But as we grow and learn and start to listen to our inner voices, the questions shift. We begin to wonder: what would have been different if support h
Aug 104 min read


I Raise My Voice Because I want Children's Rights to Be Enforceable
Initially when we started working on the Children's Rights Toolkit at Starlings, I was very excited, and I'm thrilled with how the toolkit came together. But in between those moments, I couldn't help but read the United Nations Convention on the Rights of A Child and feel deeply sad. As a young adult, still considered a youth in Canada, I am grieving the fact that, for a long time, my rights and those of my parents were taken away or not supported. And it's time for change.
Jun 253 min read


Re-Imagining Children's Rights From a Family-Centred Lens.
Today, we invite each of us to challenge our own biases towards people with a SUD, while considering how our beliefs may contribute to the l
Nov 5, 20244 min read


Children’s Rights & Parental Addiction
Stigma has a perverse effect of silencing. It creates taboos and results in issues not being addressed. Stigma renders some people and...
Jul 29, 20242 min read


Losing a parent to a toxic drug supply: Coping with Grief, Stigma, and a Toxic Supply
They say that time heals all wounds, but with grief, it can feel everlasting. At the age of 12, I lost my father to a drug poisoning*. I can't fully explain the impact that losing a parent to a toxic drug supply has had on me, because for most of my life, the stigma of substance use encouraged me to do everything I could to prevent the outside from looking in, ensuring I didn’t talk about it. But today, I’m talking.
Mar 11, 20245 min read
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